Anna VanDem’s article, “When Simplicity Becomes a Luxury: The New Cost of Looking Poor,” explores the trend of the wealthy embracing simple, intentional living. Drawing parallels to viral figures like Ballerina Farm’s Hannah Neeleman, VanDem highlights the shift from material wealth to meaningful experiences.
Have you ever noticed that some of the wealthiest people are choosing to live simpler lives? Anna VanDem explores this fascinating trend in her latest article, "When Simplicity Becomes a Luxury: The New Cost of Looking Poor."
In her thought-provoking piece, Anna shares her journey and observations, drawing comparisons to viral stars like Hannah Neeleman of Ballerina Farm. This article highlights how traditional ideas of wealth are changing, with more people valuing simplicity and meaningful experiences over flashy lifestyles.
Anna starts by questioning the usual signs of wealth, like big houses and fancy cars. Today, it seems that the truly wealthy are showing off their status in different ways—by living simply and focusing on experiences.
"As material wealth has become more accessible, the affluent are seeking ways to differentiate themselves through less conspicuous consumption and more meaningful, experience-based lifestyles," explains Dr. Juliet Schor, a sociologist featured in the article.
Anna dives into the psychology of feeling rich, drawing on insights from Nobel laureate Daniel Kahneman. It turns out that our sense of wealth is heavily influenced by our social circles. In communities where everyone has similar material possessions, people are finding new ways to stand out.
Daniel Kahneman notes, “Our happiness and sense of wealth are largely influenced by the social circles we move in. When everyone around us has similar material possessions, we seek other ways to stand out, often through lifestyle choices.”
Anna and her husband are digital marketers who run their own websites and blogs. They’ve embraced a lifestyle that allows them to spend their time gardening, cooking, and enjoying life, rather than working traditional jobs.
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Anna shares her personal story of transitioning from a life of necessity to one of choice. She explains how living simply can actually be more expensive, but for her, it's a choice that brings fulfillment.
"Interestingly enough, the way we live now versus in 2009 is not that much different. We still spend most of our time with the kids, don’t focus on luxuries, and share the housework. The main difference is in 2009 we did it out of necessity, now we do it as a choice," says Anna.
Economist Robert H. Frank adds, “In today’s economy, the value of time has outpaced the value of material goods. The wealthy often choose to invest in experiences and personal well-being, which are seen as the ultimate luxuries.”
Anna also touches on how the internet has made it easier to achieve a balanced life. "Maybe you’re not going to be the next Jeff Bezos or Elon Musk by balancing your life, but you can not worry about finances and spend as much time with your kids as you want," she says.
As technology advances, Anna predicts that many chores will become obsolete, yet those who choose to do them will be seen as living luxuriously.
"I’ve experienced that firsthand, being perceived as rich enough to stay at home and take care of my family. Often, I'm thought of as richer than I am because of my approach to material things and work," she concludes.
Anna VanDem's article, "When Simplicity Becomes a Luxury: The New Cost of Looking Poor," is available now on Medium.com. For more insights on living a balanced and intentional life, and to explore her journey, visit .
